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tiga dosa paling besar antara dosa-dosa besar

iamfitri — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 01:25:57 +0000

diriwayatkan dari Abu Bakrah ra. : Nabi Muhammad Saw menanyakan hal ini tiga kali : “maukah kuberitahu kalian dosa terbesar dari dosa-dosa besar?”
mereka berkata, “ya, wahai Rasulullah!”
Nabi Muhammad Saw bersabda ;
“(1) mempersekutukan Allah, dan (2) durhaka kepada kedua orang tua”.
kemudian Nabi bangkit dan berkata, “(3) dan ku peringatkan kalian untuk tidak membuat kesaksian palsu”.
dan setelah itu Nabi Muhammad Saw membahas panjang lebar perihal peringatan (untuk tidak memberikan kesaksian palsu) sehingga kami berpikir bahwa Nabi Muhammad Saw tidak ingin berhenti (membahasnya)

harus sedekah

iamfitri — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 01:21:21 +0000

Diriwayatkan dari Abu Musa ra. : Nabi Muhammad Saw pernah bersabda, “setiap muslim harus bersedekah”. Seseorang bertanya, “ya Rasulullah ! jika seseorang tidak memiliki apa pun untuk disedekahkan, apa yang harus ia lakukan?” Nabi Muhammad Saw bersabda, “ia harus bekerja hingga memperoleh upah dan memberikan sedekah”. Lebih jauh orang-orang bertanya, “bagaimana jika hal itu pun tidak bisa ia lakukan?” Nabi Muhammad Saw menjawab, “tolonglah orang yang membutuhkan pertolongan”. Orang-orang berkata, “jika ia tidak dapat melakukan hal itu?” Nabi Muhammad Saw bersabda, “maka ia harus mengerjakan semua perbuatan baik dan menghindari semua perbuatan buruk dan hal ini akan diperhitungkan sebagai pahala bersedekah”.

pentingnya Al Fatihah

iamfitri — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 01:16:01 +0000

Wajib Membaca Al Fatihah Dalam Shalat Diriwayatkan dari Ubadah bin Shamit r.a. : Rasulullah Saw pernah bersabda,” siapa pun yang tidak membaca Surah Al Fatihah di dalam shalatnya, maka shalatnya tidak sah”(Sahih Bukhari)

solat malam

iamfitri — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 01:14:36 +0000

Diriwayatkan dari Aisyah r.a. : pada suatu malam Rasulullah SAW mengerjakan shalat di kamarnya. Karena dinding kamar itu rendah, orang-orang dapat melihat Nabi Muhammad Saw. dan sebagian dari mereka (bermakmum) mengerjakan shalat mengikuti Nabi Muhammad Saw. esok paginya mereka menyebarkan berita itu. Malam berikutnya Nabi Muhammad Saw. berdiri mengerjakan shalat dan orang-orang (bermakmum) mengikuti Nabi Muhammad Saw. hal ini terjadi dua atau tiga malam. Oleh karena itu malam berikutnya Rasulullah SAW tidak mengerjakan shalat, juga tidak keluar rumah. Ketika esok paginya orang-orang itu menanyakan hal itu, Rasulullah SAW menjawab bahwa ia khawatir orang-orang menganggap shalat malam (sebagai shalat) wajib.

Diriwayatkan dari Zaid bin Tsabit r.a. : mengenai hadis diatas dengan penambahan bahwa Nabi Muhammad Saw. bersabda,” aku menyaksikan dan memahami yang kau kerjakan. Wahai Umatku, kerjakanlah shalat (malam) dirumahmu masing-masing, karena sesungguhnya shalat yang paling utama adalah shalat seseorang yang dikerjakan dirumahnya, kecuali shalat wajib”.

solat jemaah

iamfitri — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 01:13:14 +0000

Diriwayatkan dari Abu Hurairah r.a. : Nabi Muhammad Saw. pernah bersabda,”mengerjakan shalat berjamaah (berpahala) dua puluh lima kali lipat dibandingkan mengerjakan shalat sendiri di dalam rumah atau mengerjakan shalat di pusat perdagangan, karena jika seseorang berwhudu dengan sempurna kemudian pergi menuju masjid dengan niat mengerjakan shalat, untuk setiap langkah yang dia ayunkan dalam perjalanannya menuju masjid, Allah akan memberinya satu pahala dan memaafkan satu dosanya hingga ia masuk ke dalam masjid. Ketika ia sudah berada di dalam masjid ia mengerjakan shalat dan pada saat ia duduk menunggu untuk mengerjakan shalat (berjamaah), para malaikat akan memohonkan ampunan Allah untuknya dan mereka (para malaikat) berkata, “ya Allah, kasihilah ia. Ampunilah ia selama ia menunggu mengerjakan shalatnya dan (selama ia) tidak berhadats”.

syurga

iamfitri — Wed, 18 Nov 2009 01:11:39 +0000

Diriwayatkan dari Abu Hurairah r.a. : Rasulullah SAW pernah bersabda,” siapa pun yang memberikan dua macam (barang atau harta milik) sebagai sedekah karena Allah, akan dipanggil dari gerbang-gerbang surga, ‘ wahai hamba Allah! Inilah kekayaanmu. Maka orang-orang yang mengerjakan shalat akan dipanggil dari gerbang shalat; dan yang berjihad akan dipanggil dari gerbang jihad, sedangkan yang berpuasa akan dipanggil dari sebuah gerbang Al-Rayyan; dan mereka yang bersedekah akan dipanggil dari gerbang sedekah.” Abu Bakar berkata,”biarlah orang tua ku berkurban untukmu. Ya Rasulullah tak ada kesedihan yang akan menimpa orang-orang yang dipanggil dari masing-masing gerbang itu. Adakah orang-orang yang dipanggil dari semua gerbang itu?” Nabi Muhammad Saw. menjawab,”ya, dan aku berharap salah satunya adalah kamu”

typical..for some

iamfitri — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 23:24:56 +0000

lepas berbuka..rilek jap..bebual dgn family ke, friends..rilek kan perut ah..
pastu gi mandi,siap nak gi terawih..
dah tiga tempat that ive performed my terawih prayers, Masjid Darul Ghufran, Masjid Attaqwa, Masjid Al Istighfar..
i prefer mosque la..cos da dgr uztaz2 ckp terawih kat masjid lagi afdhal..bole niat i’tikaf, solat sunat masjid etc..mane bole buat ni semua klau buat kt bawah HDB blok kan?

N then perrmulaan Ramadhan je ramai org, klah give them benefit of the doubt…semua nak azam baru..hmmm then aru je seminggu dah makin sikit org datang..
hahah kelakar lah org melayu ni..gi geylang la tu..or malas, or keje, or terawih kat rumah.
wteva it is i hope people still terawih eventho tak nampak kt masjid..
yelah terawih kan cuma dlm bulan ramadhan..walaupun sunnat tapi still dah dijanji dpt pahala mcm pahala wajib..

nway ape yg bagus sgt dgn geylang tu??..i’m a guy,i somehw can tell, “cuci mata” comes to mind
the food definitely wud be nice..
ckp pasal makan lak, haiz..bila buka puasa tu, ingat la solat maghrib..bukan ape la, Allah tk perintah kita suro tinggal kan solat bila kita puasa..
it shows many Muslims here don’t understand ..or should i say ignorant..or they just follow wt other people are doing…
kadang2 bila tegur , sensitive lak..tak leh accept lak..kata kita ‘aksen baik’ or wat..
i’m just giving advice, once only…pastu suka hati korang…cos klau tak kasi advice to another Muslim, aku rasa aku pon kena tanggung dosa pasal tk tegur..

aku tak paham ah, ade orang bebual world abis..ckp pasal nak berubah or wateva..bt they don’t learn
how to be closer to Allah?.u have to learn..tak bole pandai2 buat assumption..yes its true Allah maha pengampun..tapi klau nak buat ibadah tu kena la belajar..
semua ibadah hv to follow rules
tgk la skrg ..ramai puasa tapi tak solat..buat ape?.nonsense kan..abes tu celebrate Hari Raya mcm paham..poser segala macam benda

iftar kt luar, ingat la solat..i can guarantee..wana try? can..for girls who can’t pray cos dorang uzur,u go any makan plc..jz look arnd, dah nak masuk isyak still ramai masih makn ,rilek..
hahah ape saja lah korang..
kadang2 sedih tgk, pasal yg buat pon some of them my own relatives, my friends, my loved ones..
aku pon tknk masuk campur la..masuk kubur pon sorang,.masing2 nye dosa tanggung sendiri..
to all who read my blog..im nt here to criticise..jz convey my msg to the ones u love..
kan ramai2 masuk syurga pon best kan

dislike

iamfitri — Sun, 30 Aug 2009 04:53:59 +0000

i hate my job..
it’s not good for me, for my health, for my pride..because everything i do, i will give my fullest attention and dedication.
And when that is gone, i know i have to go somewhere else.
It’s the feeling where ..i think at this age, i need to decide where i’m heading. It’s at this point in my life, that i decide where my future is going to be..whether settling down, career etc.

I want to work at a place where friends can be supprotive, not the ones who talk behind your back most of the time.
Where i get to use my ability, which is my physical strength.
i want to work where i can use my strength..because that’s where i’m good at.
I will get job satisfaction, period

period

why am i such a fool?

iamfitri — Wed, 19 Aug 2009 10:22:16 +0000

i became a fool when i go all out for someone but then they love someone else

i feel like a fool when they don’t realise that whatever i say or do for them is because i love them, but they take it as an insult.

a fool is not a dumb..because i’m not dumb

it’s just that we have this soft spot if it’s for the person we love

to all you people , please don’t be like me
but i doubt you all will sustain , because we all have a heart, unless we are one of those heartless people, who don’t care about others, who manipulate others to gain something for themselves, who pretend,who is a hyprocrite..they just act like as if they care but actually they aren’t
and the sickening part is when they put up this attitude so that people will care for them, knowing that fools like us will fall prey , fools like us who will help them without thinking whether it’s our safety, our personal time, our money, our health..they just like to manipulate us..
these people are close by, they know me, i know them very well…don’t blame me if don’t want to go outings with you, or trust you, or make you happy with my money, because i rather donate to needy people than lavish you..
and one more thing..
you talk like you are the best..you are everything ..action please, don’t talk and no action…

ramadhan is here ..repent

these people are closer to people i’m close with..

dealing with menses..the Islamic way

iamfitri — Thu, 13 Aug 2009 00:04:03 +0000

I am a woman who suffers from severe waswaas (whispers from the shaytaan) with regard to acts of worship, especially with regard to tahaarah (purification). When my menses comes, I do not wait until I see the tuhr (white discharge signalling the end of menses). As soon as I see dryness, I do ghusl because I am so afraid of committing sin by not praying, and I repeat my ghusl twice or more. Two days before Ramadan I did ghusl following menses, and 24 hours later I saw a brownish reddish discharge, so I wiped the traces of the brownish discharge with a tissue and did ghusl at night with the intention of fasting the first day of Ramadan. I fasted the first day and the second day of Ramadan. At the time of ‘Asr prayer on the second day of Ramadan, I saw a little bit of yellowish discharge with some flecks in it, but I did not repeat my ghusl, and I continued fasting until the end of Ramadan. Now, after Ramadan, I feel that I have sinned and that my fast is not valid and thus I have to repeat the fast because I did not do ghusl again. Please advise me, may Allah reward you with good. Is my fast valid or do I have to repeat the fast once more? What do you advise me to do? May Allah reward you with good.
Praise be to Allaah.

Firstly:
Waswasah may be treated with two easy remedies:
1.
Remember Allah a great deal and obey Him. This is the way to attain peace of mind, stability and reassurance, and to ward off the Shaytaan and his whispers, as Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“Those who believed (in the Oneness of Allaah — Islâmic Monotheism), and whose hearts find rest in the remembrance of Allaah verily, in the remembrance of Allaah do hearts find rest”
[al-Ra’d 13:38]

“Whoever works righteousness — whether male or female — while he (or she) is a true believer (of Islamic Monotheism) verily, to him We will give a good life (in this world with respect, contentment and lawful provision), and We shall pay them certainly a reward in proportion to the best of what they used to do (i.e. Paradise in the Hereafter).

98. So when you want to recite the Qur’aan, seek refuge with Allaah from Shaytaan (Satan), the outcast (the cursed one).
99. Verily, he has no power over those who believe and put their trust only in their Lord (Allaah)”
[al-Nahl 16:97-99]

“Say: “I seek refuge with (Allaah) the Lord of mankind,
2. “The King of mankind —
3. “The Ilaah (God) of mankind,
4. “From the evil of the whisperer (devil who whispers evil in the hearts of men) who withdraws (from his whispering in one’s heart after one remembers Allaah).
5. “Who whispers in the breasts of mankind.
6. “Of jinn and men”
[al-Naas 114:1-6].

Ibn Katheer (may Allah have mercy on him) said in his Tafseer: Sa’eed ibn Jubayr narrated that Ibn ‘Abbaas said concerning the phrase “the whisperer (devil who whispers evil in the hearts of men) who withdraws”: The Shaytaan hovers around the hearts of the sons of Adam, and if a person forgets the remembrance of Allaah and becomes heedless, he whispers to him (waswasa), but if the person remembers Allah, he withdraws. This was also stated by Mujaahid and Qataadah.
Al-Mu’tamir ibn Sulaymaan narrated that his father said: I was told that the shaytaan or the whisperer blows into the heart of the son of Adam at times of sorrow and times of joy, but if the person remembers Allah, he withdraws. End quote.

2.
Turning away from the waswasah and distracting oneself from it, and not paying any attention to it or responding to it. This guarantees that it will go away and one will be cured of it.
Although this remedy is difficult in the beginning, it becomes easier later on. All you have to do is strive and make the effort, and ask Allah for help. Allah says (interpretation of the meaning): “As for those who strive hard in Us (Our Cause), We will surely guide them to Our paths (i.e. Allaah’s religion — Islamic Monotheism). And verily, Allaah is with the Muhsinoon (good-doers)” [al-‘Ankaboot 29:69].

Ibn Hajar al-Makki (may Allah have mercy on him) was asked about the disease of waswasah – is there any remedy for it?

He replied: There is an efficacious remedy for it, which is ignoring it completely, even if one feels hesitant about doing so, because once a person stops paying attention to it, it cannot remain for long; rather it will go away after a short time, as those who were guided by Allah have experienced. But if a person pays attention to it and acts upon it, it will continue to increase until it drives him insane, and even worse than that, as we have seen in many of those who were tested by it and paid attention to it and to its devils. End quote from al-Fataawa al-Fiqhiyyah al-Kubra (1/149).

Secondly:

The end of menses is signalled by one of two signs:
(i) Complete dryness such that if the women were to insert a piece of cotton and the like, it would come out clean with no trace of blood or yellow or brownish discharge on it.
(ii) Emission of the white discharge, a white liquid which is well known to women.
You should not hasten to do ghusl until you are certain that you have become pure. Al-Bukhaari (may Allah have mercy on him) said in his Saheeh: Chapter on the beginning and end of menses; women used to send cotton pads with traces of yellow on them to ‘Aa’ishah and she would say: Do not hasten until you see the white discharge, meaning thereby becoming pure from menses.
It was also narrated by Maalik in al-Muwatta’, no. 130

Thirdly:

If you see complete dryness and do ghusl, then some brownish or yellowish discharge comes, that does not matter, because yellowish or brownish discharge after becoming pure is not menses, because of the hadeeth of Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: We did not regard the yellowish or brownish discharge after becoming pure from menses as anything important. Narrated by Abu Dawood (307); classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood.
There is no shortcoming or sin on one who delays doing ghusl and praying until she is certain she has become pure. Rather this is what she should do, because it is haraam to pray when one is menstruating.

Fourthly:

If we assume that you did ghusl before you really had become pure, then you did not repeat your ghusl, your fasts on the first and second days were not valid, because you were menstruating. But on the following days your fast was valid, because in order to fast, it is not stipulated that one should have done ghusl following menses or janaabah.

Based on that, if you saw complete dryness, then your ghusl was valid and your fast was valid.
If you were too hasty and did ghusl and fasted before complete dryness occurred, then you have to make up the fast of the first and second day, but with regard to the rest of the month, your fast is valid and you do not have to do anything further

Our advice to you is what we have stated above of the necessity of treating waswasah and ridding oneself of it, and not paying any attention to it.
We ask Allah to guide and help you.
And Allah knows best.

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